Updated: Nov 16
How to Do Relationship Readings with Tarot: Your Q&A Guide
Hey there, tarot friends! Today, we're diving into the fascinating world of relationship readings with tarot. I'm going to answer some of the most common questions I've encountered in my practice, and we'll explore how to approach relationship readings with care and insight. So, let's get started!
Q1: What's Your Favorite Spread for Relationship Readings?
Ah, the classic question! You might expect a straightforward answer, but it depends. The choice of spread depends on what the client is looking for. If it's a general relationship reading, it's different from a specific query about relationship issues. I usually start by coaching the client to understand their needs better.
For instance, I might ask:
What are your relationship goals?
What's not working in your current relationship?
What would a successful relationship look like to you?
I often skip formal spreads and let the cards guide the conversation based on the client's unique situation and questions. But if spreads are your thing, there’s a variety of relationship spreads available that you can explore.
Q2: What Are Some Relationship Spreads You Recommend?
Absolutely, there's a treasure trove of relationship spreads to choose from. Here are some I recommend for different situations:
Manifesting Love: Great for clients seeking a new partner.
Relationship Potential: Ideal for exploring the potential of an existing relationship.
Celebrating Our Connection: Perfect when someone feels their relationship is getting a bit stale.
Releasing a Past Love: Helpful for those struggling to move on from a past relationship.
Navigating Relationship Challenges: Designed for addressing specific issues within a relationship.
Soulmate Search: For those on a quest to find their soulmate.
Relationship Crossroads: Useful when clients need guidance on a critical decision in their relationship.
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Remember, you can mix and match questions or create your own spread based on your intuition and the client's needs.
Q3: What Are Your Rules for Relationship Readings?
When it comes to relationship readings, I have two fundamental rules:
No Psychic Spying: I never read for someone who hasn't consented to the reading. This means I don't try to peek into how a person feels about my client without their permission. It's an ethical boundary I uphold.
Client-Centered Focus: My readings are client-centered. I don't read for people who aren't present during the reading. If a client asks about another person's feelings, I redirect the question to focus on how the client would like that person to feel or what actions they can take to improve the relationship.
Figuring out your own ethics and rules is important. Just because those are boundaries for me, doesn’t mean they need to be boundaries for you. What are your boundaries when it comes to relationship readings?
Setting these boundaries ensures that readings remain ethical and respectful of everyone involved.
Relationship readings can be a powerful tool for gaining insights into the dynamics of our connections with others. Whether you prefer formal spreads or spreadless readings, remember that the key is to provide guidance and clarity for your clients while respecting ethical boundaries.
Feel free to experiment with different spreads and adapt them to suit your style and your client's needs. And always trust your intuition – it's your most valuable tool in the world of tarot.
If you have more questions or want to share your experiences with relationship readings, please feel free to reach out.
Happy reading, everyone!
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